snewoman
Saturday, July 23, 2011
The “things” we have will come and go, but the memories... will be with us forever.
SNE WOMAN (THE MAGAZINE); Speaks two trends; the importance and value of promoting local businesses, products and services and the general growing concept of living one's best life.
SNE WOMAN (THE BLOG); Touches on general issues facing women today. Like the publication, it's meant to help you come away with a renewed sense of self. To encourage you to learn something new. A tip or suggestion that makes you say... “I need to try this.”, or, “I never knew that before”. Hopefully this blog will become another tool for you to use, that will help you focus on finding the right questions, in order to make your life better, live your dream easier, and become a happier you.
My name is Pat Paolino Cruz and I am the creator here. I am a single mom with three kids and come from a loud Italian family. My kids are Italian and Hawaiian. Very cool combo if I do say so myself. I wear many hats and have created several different businesses which have kept me very connected to women. I am not a blogger or a writer, however, I thought it was important to chat directly to you. We are all different, but at the same time, are all the same. It isn't easy to do what we do. To wear all the hats we wear. There are so many topics that we can discuss here, together, that will help us along our paths. My hope is that you find something in one of the posts to comment on and share your own views. To offer your insight and personal stories that may in some way, help create clarity in another woman's life who may also be reading this blog. And, ok, here is a bit of information upfront... Sometimes I get so busy and I before you know it, another week is over. I know you can relate. Those are the times I may not be able to give you my own personally written story, however, I will give you something I believe has equal importance. A topic that helps us discuss something I really didn't know that much about to begin with, but believe it's something we can all benefit from by reading.
You know how the Seinfeld episodes were described... “The Show About Nothing.” Well, I think this blog will probably go in the same direction. There is nothing earth shattering I want to say. Nothing that will be “breaking news” for the week. Just stuff. Stuff about us. Stuff for us. Stuff to help us become better women. And I say “us” because I am in fact, a woman, with the same issues you have. Possibly more...lol.... In any event, it isn't easy being a woman today. Sometimes I find myself up at three in the morning (as I am now), researching, writing, responding or doing general follow up work I wasn't able to get to all day. I did take a little nap from about midnight (when Criminal Minds, my favorite show, was over) until about 2am when I woke up and thought... ugh, I forgot to...(fill in the blank). I'm sure you do the same thing. It's not that I was busy all day long, working 24/7. It's that, I have kids. It's summer and they are home with me. I have a home office which makes it easy for me to work on my own schedule. It may be the middle of the night, but it allows me to sit and hang out with my kids, take them to the beach on a hot day or just enjoy a movie together before they go to bed. I don't remember my parents spending much time with me when I was a kid. They were busy, they worked a lot. I don't want my kids to have “un-fun” memories. I enjoy being the “go to the beach mom”, or the “go camping (yes, in a tent) mom”, or the “let's go to the fireworks tonight mom”.
I know it's hard because we all have so many responsibilities.... Chef, maid, worker, bank, taxi service, mother, daughter, caretaker, teacher, activities specialist. Sometimes I slack off. I know I am completely at fault when it comes to putting off work to spend a little time with my kids. I know. Terrible thing to do when you have your own business but you know, I decided a long time ago that I didn't want to punch a clock. I wanted to be accessible for my kids and be a little more of a free spirit if I could. If I have to choose what's most important to me, it's to let my kids remember fun times. Like any kids, they will probably still think I worked too much anyway...lol... and I do work a lot, however, I want them to also remember that I wasn't afraid to get dirty. To sleep on the ground in a sleeping bag with them or to take off on a moment's notice for a quick picnic in the middle of the day. I know lots of women don't have the luxury of taking off in the middle of the day to do something special possibly by themselves (a long pedicure, an hour in the park with a blanket and a book), with friends, a spouse or with their kids, however, nights and weekends count and no matter what time you do have, you need to make the best of it. If you want to do it, you will find the time. In the end, no matter what you do in life, you learn that people and the moments are all that matter. Do what you can, to make them good ones.
Ok, I see already that I wrote about nothing. Actually, I wanted to just spill a bit of what was on my mind and give you a bit of the way I am. Maybe you've gotten the gist of the way I am in previous posts but for some reason, I felt like I wanted to start from scratch and take you from this point on. Maybe it's because I am getting ready to go to press with the next issue of the magazine and it's like a new beginning all over again. What ever it is, I hope that you stay with us and take some time once in awhile to write a few comments down yourself about what's going on in your life and what you would like to chat about. It really is all about us... women... the glue that holds everyone around us together.... and we do it with four bones that we women sport so fabulously... Our Funny bone, our backbone, our cheekbones and most importantly our wishbone...
Choose your priorities carefully... Wishing you happiness in your day!
Friday, July 8, 2011
Finding Myself Some Quiet Time
"I consider myself a pretty social person, but I’ll admit I need my “alone” time – those periodic hours away from everyone and everything when I can concentrate on my own thoughts."
If you're like me you are always running in a million different directions and sometimes getting a bit overwhelmed. I have three kids, am a single mom and work on several business projects at once. Each day, I do what I can to stay motivated, optimistic, try to keep positive energy around me and also find alone time to renew my thoughts with some nurturing solitude. Researchers suggest that alone time—not loneliness, but intentional solitude—is a crucial resource that too many of us are missing.
We are constantly surrounded by people (business, social, friends, family, children) and if you think about it, even the time we spend online communicating via email, direct messages, IM, updating statuses or commenting on posts. We live totally accessible with constant online conversation. Staying connected at all times is the addiction of the 21st century, so, instead of taking time to find a quiet oasis; to reflect and renew ourselves, we are filling up whatever spare time we have with noise, facebook and twitter.
I found that grabbing some time for myself and a bit of seclusion, even if just for an hour is extremely effective in helping me get back on track when the mound of things on my desk is towering or my "to do" list has three pages. I'm not always great about finding alone time but I am learning to be better and I thought I would share a few ways, that you can set aside more quiet time for yourself:
...Decide to work offline. Unplug the cables to prevent temptation of checking emails or facebook messages. The time you save from wasteful internet usage will be more time you have available for very special things you really want to do.
...Close the door when you are working or if you can do it, go to the library so you can concentrate on work without distractions. Your phone will be off and you will be amazed how quickly you get through what you need to do without the "tools of technology" in your hands.
...Wake up earlier and just sit. It's summertime. Grab a chair and a cup of coffee or some fresh fruit and take 15 minutes to sit outside and enjoy the sounds of the morning. Use the time to process your thoughts so that you can focus better during the day.
...Set Aside Interaction Time. It’s better to toggle between meditative solitude and complete social engagement than to be constantly half-engaged, half-detached. Set aside time to completely focus on family or friends.
...Drive time noise... I love listening to music, however,silence can be better for focusing your thoughts. Turning off the news, cd or radio for a few minutes during your commute can give you a chance to think.
...Home and no electronics time! Television and the internet can be a substitution for social life. How many hours do you spend in front of the tube each week? Turn off the television when you are alone and use that time for "you". Take a bubble bath, give yourself a pedicure or if you want a little company, read a book to your daughter or son instead of watching the same rerun for the fourth time. That time will certainly lead you to more productive and better reflective time.
...Before bed, take a few minutes to sit and focus on your breathing. Shift all your awareness into your breathing, the muscles in your body or the various sensations around you while you sit in silence and feel the air flow in and out of your lungs. Sometimes I use it to visualize taking in good energy with the new breaths I take, and exhaling stale or negative energy that has been inside me that day.
We use alone time to process our relationships and recalibrate our sense of self. In solitude, we return to center. Solitude reminds us of what is essential to our identity. It inspires deeper deliberation and allows for a chance to take inventory and hear the messages that fill our day.
“It is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts.” – K.T. Jong
Friday, July 1, 2011
10 Things You Can Learn About a Guy in 3 Dates or Less
I came across this little tidbit and couldn't help sharing with you. Interesting to get a man's perspectie on this... What do you think?
10 Things You Can Learn About a Guy in 3 Dates or Less
There are no absolutes in the world, save for the whole bit about death and taxes. This is especially true in the dating world. Dating websites are supposed to help us with this, to a degree. However, people tend to fluff themselves and filter out key pieces of information aka “deal breakers.” Getting to know someone is fun, but the problem is that it takes time… No one wants to waste time. So I’m gonna give the ladies a little somethin’ somethin’ to help with filtering out men they may not be into.
1.Messy or Clean? - There’s a difference between a guy who lives perfectly pristine, mildly mess or OMGWTFBBQFTL is that an Opossum watching ‘Weeds’ on your couch, with the remote!!!? If you dig someone who is meticulous and, perhaps, a bit obsessive with cleanliness this guy may be for you. A mildly messy guy shows someone who is lose, goes with the flow and is open minded. They could also be sloppy, or just a bit lazy, if not immature. Someone living in what seems like the remnants of Chernobyl is someone that has more issues going on than just their living area. Be prepared and bring your gloves.
2.Traffic: Man, traffic sucks, or You piece of @#$% go @#$% yourself!!!—A man’s temperament should be a key indicator to the success of any relationship you look to jump into. A guy cursing at and running cars off the road is a sure warning sign, or it should be. Maybe you like guys with anger management issues… It’s possible to be too upset and too mellow, they are extreme sides of the same coin, really. If a guy doesn’t care he’s just been cut off and put in danger, then that could indicate that the guy doesn’t stand up for himself.
3.Public Displays of Affection (PDA) - As with the ‘Three Bears Story,’ there’s too much, too little and just right. Obviously, it’s up to you to know which is right for you. A guy that’s holding you and groping you, otherwise smothering you, out in public probably has a need to show you off, or to show that he’s got someone and that the world needs to know about it. It’s validation, in some way. If the guy’s romantic way to end an evening is with a fist bump, then he’s probably not sure if he’s really into you or not, or could be lacking confidence.
4.What Does he Order for Dinner?—What your guy orders can be telling also. Is he a mac and cheese kind of guy. Does he avoid the hip eatery around the corner? Does he run and hide at the mention of a late night taco truck run? Is he otherwise happy with Hamburger helper? These are not inherently bad things. They just serve as a gauge for you to know how open he is to different things. Someone that isn’t into exotic foods, or just trying new and different places may be someone not keen for trying too many different things…
5.How Does He Prefer to Communicate?—Does your guy send you text messages all the time? Does he take the time to call? If he has to break his plans will call, email or text you? If he calls you more often than not, especially when something comes up, this indicates that he’s a bit more considerate and able to pony up and “be a man” when things get rough. If he’s texting a lot, or emailing, he may just not be sure if he’s completely into you, or simply, he may not be as mature as you’d like.
6.His Group of Friends. —The entourage that he rolls with; who do the consist of? Are they high school friends, nearly exclusively? Or is it a pretty good mix of people from various stages of his life? If he keeps the company of the people that he’s known since high school (aka forever) then he may have issues with trust and/or could be averse to change or stepping outside of his comfort zone. This could also indicate a strong sense of loyalty. If his circle of friends has a large variety then, yeah, that’s someone who’s not afraid to mix things up and probably open to newer experiences and offers something new more often.
7.Does He Have a Favorite Team? - Men who really enjoy sports also tend to have a competitive attitude and also tend to be passionate. This is also something that he may share with his buddies on a regular basis. Not a bad thing, but watching the game, especially if it’s the playoffs, may trump your plans or spontaneity.
8.His Bad Habits.—Does he gamble? Does he flirt with the help, like the waitress? Does he fail to keep up on the laundry? Does he interrupt you while you’re talking? Keep an eye out for some of his warning signs… Maybe they’re endearing at first, but these little nuggets of info let you know what you’re dealing with and just know these things probably aren’t going anywhere. Can you deal with them?
9.What does He Spend His Money on? —If you’re looking for a mature guy and he spends his money on comic book character bust sculptures, maintaining his ten World of Warcraft monthly memberships or updating his awesome home entertainment system then that might be an issue. A guy that knows where he’s headed plans for it, saves for it and gets there by being a responsible spender. If he’s spending things on more trivial items that may indicate that he’s more of a free fun loving spirit… It really depends what you are looking for in order to know if either way he spends his money is bad for you.
10.How Does he Talk About Mom?—Again, there are no absolutes here, but if a guy has a poor relationship with mom, that can sometimes raise a red flag. The mom is one of the most important relationships a guy develops in his lifetime. If a guy has issues with his mom then it can sometimes be harder for him to understand, respect and even trust the new gal in his life. However, if he’s had issues with his mom and can say, positively, that he’s worked them out or that he knows they need improvement then that is a positive. The other side to that is the mama’s boy. The guy who can’t get enough of mom and that puts you in a competition to win attention from his mom…
Do these all work every time? Seventy percent of the time they work every time. So keep that in mind when reading up on this list.
Alex Vasquez is the founder and Creative Director of Design at DigiSavvy, Inc (digisavvy.com), a creative web design and social media marketing agency focusing on business branding based in Orange County, CA.
5 Simple Tips to Achieve Beautiful, Radiant, Summer Skin
Summertime is when we want our skin to glow, with radiant and flawless skin. It’s not always easy when the sun’s harmful rays are beating down on our delicate skin. Medical Aesthetician, Susan Perry, provides her expert tips to get that glow and prevent the number one cause of wrinkles, age spots, and premature aging – UV radiation.
Susan Says…
1.Check expiration dates: Check the expiration dates on your sunscreens. It’s a good idea to replace yearly and buy new ones to match to your skin type and needs. After you have thrown out the old ones, are you left with a great sunscreen that you love to use every day? Do you also have one for sport, for your body? Be sure to have the sunscreen for any occasion, on hand.
2.Best 2 in 1 product: Use a daily moisturizer that includes a full- spectrum SPF when you are indoors, near bright windows, or driving. UVA penetrates windows and damages unprotected skin. Elta MD sun care line provides a complete spectrum of sun care products, one for every skin type, and unique need.
3.Renew: Exfoliation revs up the circulation, removes dead skin cells, and gives your skin a glow. Light peels and microdermabrasion are great in office treatments. For take- home treatment, try a lovely citrus scrub for the face. Some of my favorite at-home products include Microdermabrasion Cream by Physicians Complex, BioMedic Micro Exfoliating Scrub for the Face and Body or Deep Thermal Cleanser from Societe.
4. Keep skin clear: Toners can also help clear away surface oils and grime while at the same time, they refresh, firm, and cool the skin. My favorite toners include Obagi Toner which is fresh and botanical for all skin types and Societe Conditioning Prep which tightens and brightens.
5. Protect: A typical white t- shirt gives about SPF7 and when it is wet –about SPF3. Columbia and Land’s End Sportswear offer lightweight clothing which protects up to 97.7% of harmful UV rays. These items of clothing are perfect for summer sailing or hiking.
This summer, be sun-smart and take care of your skin. Follow these five easy tips, and get skin that radiates all summer long!
About Susan Perry:
Originally from England, Susan completed her training in Applied Aesthetics and Physiatrics in London. She has been working with plastic surgeon, Dr. Donald Brown, since 1993.Together, she and Dr. Brown created one of the first medical skin care programs in the United States. Throughout her career, Susan Perry has been dedicated to continuing education and has attended many advanced training schools and seminars. She is devoted to exploring the latest, most advanced skin care techniques and products available, eagerly integrating the most effective and promising of these into the practice.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Surround Yourself with Passionate People
Post written by Leo Babauta
Last night I had an amazing dinner with my wife Eva and my friends Scott and Jesse and their wives Chelsea and Joanna.
The gathering itself was simple: six people, simple healthy food, a little wine, a little tea, nothing else. Except that we lost ourselves in conversation so deeply that before we knew it, it was 1:30 a.m. and I was shocked at how quickly the time had passed.
The secret is also simple: when you talk with people who are passionate about what they’re doing, passionate about life and the people they love, it is transformative.
The people I talked with last night are incredibly passionate about what they’re doing. And yes, Brett, I mean passionate: excited, fired-up, feeling-strongly-about, thinking-about-it-all-the-time, can’t-wait-to-do-it-when-you-wake-up passion. When you talk with people who are passionate like that, you can’t help but get fired up yourself. You want to go out and do something exciting.
Passionate people not only inspire you, they give you ideas. They read books by other people who are passionate and full of ideas, and they recommend the books to you or pass the ideas on to you. Scott and Jesse, for example, are constantly meeting other passionate people, and that inspires them … and in turn that inspires me. It’s fuel for an intense fire.
A nice side benefit is Scott & Chelsea and Jesse & Joanna are some of the most health-conscious people I know — the dinner was extremely healthy and delicious, and I went away even more inspired to get fit and live a healthy life. I love people like that.
I’ve met a lot of passionate, smart, inspired people since moving to San Francisco — people like Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg and Tynan and Corbett Barr and Oleg and Barron and more. It’s incredible to talk with people like that, and you can’t walk away from them without getting a bit revved up.
While I try to lead a life of minimalism, I’ve learned that minimalism can be done anywhere you go … and it doesn’t require that you move to a farm or give up your contact with people. Just the opposite: minimalism is about giving up consumption in favor of doing things you’re passionate about and having real relationships with a few people you really value. I’d much rather have a conversation with someone doing something amazing than go shopping.
You don’t have to live in a big city like New York or San Francisco to surround yourself with passionate people. They’re in small towns, but it might take a bit of looking to find them. Find small businesses who are doing amazing things, and talk with the people there. Look for startups, for artists and writers, for people who are obsessed with doing something really well.
If you can’t find them where you live, find them online. They’re everywhere if you look. Read books by people full of powerful ideas who are doing innovative things. Read their blogs, talk to them via email and Twitter. Start collaborating with people like that.
Be one of them, and inspire others.
—
Last night I had an amazing dinner with my wife Eva and my friends Scott and Jesse and their wives Chelsea and Joanna.
The gathering itself was simple: six people, simple healthy food, a little wine, a little tea, nothing else. Except that we lost ourselves in conversation so deeply that before we knew it, it was 1:30 a.m. and I was shocked at how quickly the time had passed.
The secret is also simple: when you talk with people who are passionate about what they’re doing, passionate about life and the people they love, it is transformative.
The people I talked with last night are incredibly passionate about what they’re doing. And yes, Brett, I mean passionate: excited, fired-up, feeling-strongly-about, thinking-about-it-all-the-time, can’t-wait-to-do-it-when-you-wake-up passion. When you talk with people who are passionate like that, you can’t help but get fired up yourself. You want to go out and do something exciting.
Passionate people not only inspire you, they give you ideas. They read books by other people who are passionate and full of ideas, and they recommend the books to you or pass the ideas on to you. Scott and Jesse, for example, are constantly meeting other passionate people, and that inspires them … and in turn that inspires me. It’s fuel for an intense fire.
A nice side benefit is Scott & Chelsea and Jesse & Joanna are some of the most health-conscious people I know — the dinner was extremely healthy and delicious, and I went away even more inspired to get fit and live a healthy life. I love people like that.
I’ve met a lot of passionate, smart, inspired people since moving to San Francisco — people like Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg and Tynan and Corbett Barr and Oleg and Barron and more. It’s incredible to talk with people like that, and you can’t walk away from them without getting a bit revved up.
While I try to lead a life of minimalism, I’ve learned that minimalism can be done anywhere you go … and it doesn’t require that you move to a farm or give up your contact with people. Just the opposite: minimalism is about giving up consumption in favor of doing things you’re passionate about and having real relationships with a few people you really value. I’d much rather have a conversation with someone doing something amazing than go shopping.
You don’t have to live in a big city like New York or San Francisco to surround yourself with passionate people. They’re in small towns, but it might take a bit of looking to find them. Find small businesses who are doing amazing things, and talk with the people there. Look for startups, for artists and writers, for people who are obsessed with doing something really well.
If you can’t find them where you live, find them online. They’re everywhere if you look. Read books by people full of powerful ideas who are doing innovative things. Read their blogs, talk to them via email and Twitter. Start collaborating with people like that.
Be one of them, and inspire others.
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Monday, November 29, 2010
Quick “Hollywood” Makeup Tips
Do you think Hollywood starlets wake up looking camera ready? Guess again...they roll out of bed the same way we all do. Take these makeup tips, put on your best face and become your own starlet
That Face!
Preparing your face with foundation is like preparing a canvas to what comes next. Match color and tone from face to neck so there is no mask look. Just blend, and blend, for no foundation lines.
Inside tip: use a lighter color foundation under the eyes.
Apply a light dusting of powder over foundation to set it and make the look last longer. I stress "light dusting," because as we get older, that beautiful powder catches in the creases and, if I dare say, wrinkles, making them appear more noticeable. However, not using powder over foundation will cause it to fade faster.
A little rose blush or light bronzer in the hollow of the cheek will warm you up without giving you the "she has a ton of makeup on" look.
Did you say you wanted a natural look? You can look natural and flawless at the same time. Natural doesn't always mean wearing no makeup. Stay with browns and creams which will add a little kick to your features without going overboard with color. If your are feeling a little bold, then by all means use a little more color; but can we stay away from that flamingo pink lipstick please...
For Smokey Eyes
Try this signature look. Lightest color on lid and under brow bone. Warmest shade rounding off crease. The darkest color, for however dramatic you want to look, place under lash line about half way in depending on eye shape and out to corner of eye. Blend upward towards crease and fade outwards towards outside corner of brow. The deepness will look like a sideways "V" on the outside corner of your eye.
Eye Liner & Mascara
I suggest black for everyone because I love the dramatic look it creates. However, older or lighter skin and hair-tone women should opt for a less sharp affect and go with a brown or a plum gray.
Liquid liner is the best at not smudging or bleeding. It is my product of choice but if you can’t master the liquid application, which creates a sharp line, don’t use it. There are great pencil liners that work just as well. Using a thin line of liner across the top of the lid will make lashes appear longer and lush at the root but, don’t forget to curl lashes. No woman deserves to be without a “come hither” look that comes from curled lashes.
Lips
One key to remember, the dryer the product, the longer it will last and the less it will bleed. Lipliner first, followed by lipstick which is a bit creamier.
Blend it almost to the end of the lipliner so that you don't have that outlined lip look which was never "in" to begin with. Finish with a touch of clear or shimmer gloss dabbed only on the center of the bottom lip for a fuller look. Don't rub, just blot your lips together slightly so as not to cause the gloss to spread too far towards the outside of the lips.
Now, if you practice... this should take you no more than 10 minutes and you will be paparazzi-ready where ever you go. You are ready for your closeup!
Pat Cruz is a retired pageant and wedding makeup artist. For 15 years she worked backstage at fashion shows and pageants with contestants into the hundreds at single events. Pat traveled throughout the US and received a national and international following. Her signature was to create amazing looks by bringing out the best features naturally and fast. Each starlets look lasted for the duration of the competition or wedding day.
That Face!
Preparing your face with foundation is like preparing a canvas to what comes next. Match color and tone from face to neck so there is no mask look. Just blend, and blend, for no foundation lines.
Inside tip: use a lighter color foundation under the eyes.
Apply a light dusting of powder over foundation to set it and make the look last longer. I stress "light dusting," because as we get older, that beautiful powder catches in the creases and, if I dare say, wrinkles, making them appear more noticeable. However, not using powder over foundation will cause it to fade faster.
A little rose blush or light bronzer in the hollow of the cheek will warm you up without giving you the "she has a ton of makeup on" look.
Did you say you wanted a natural look? You can look natural and flawless at the same time. Natural doesn't always mean wearing no makeup. Stay with browns and creams which will add a little kick to your features without going overboard with color. If your are feeling a little bold, then by all means use a little more color; but can we stay away from that flamingo pink lipstick please...
For Smokey Eyes
Try this signature look. Lightest color on lid and under brow bone. Warmest shade rounding off crease. The darkest color, for however dramatic you want to look, place under lash line about half way in depending on eye shape and out to corner of eye. Blend upward towards crease and fade outwards towards outside corner of brow. The deepness will look like a sideways "V" on the outside corner of your eye.
Eye Liner & Mascara
I suggest black for everyone because I love the dramatic look it creates. However, older or lighter skin and hair-tone women should opt for a less sharp affect and go with a brown or a plum gray.
Liquid liner is the best at not smudging or bleeding. It is my product of choice but if you can’t master the liquid application, which creates a sharp line, don’t use it. There are great pencil liners that work just as well. Using a thin line of liner across the top of the lid will make lashes appear longer and lush at the root but, don’t forget to curl lashes. No woman deserves to be without a “come hither” look that comes from curled lashes.
Lips
One key to remember, the dryer the product, the longer it will last and the less it will bleed. Lipliner first, followed by lipstick which is a bit creamier.
Blend it almost to the end of the lipliner so that you don't have that outlined lip look which was never "in" to begin with. Finish with a touch of clear or shimmer gloss dabbed only on the center of the bottom lip for a fuller look. Don't rub, just blot your lips together slightly so as not to cause the gloss to spread too far towards the outside of the lips.
Now, if you practice... this should take you no more than 10 minutes and you will be paparazzi-ready where ever you go. You are ready for your closeup!
Pat Cruz is a retired pageant and wedding makeup artist. For 15 years she worked backstage at fashion shows and pageants with contestants into the hundreds at single events. Pat traveled throughout the US and received a national and international following. Her signature was to create amazing looks by bringing out the best features naturally and fast. Each starlets look lasted for the duration of the competition or wedding day.
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How to Harness the Power of Momentum
‘It’s like the wind at my back, the sun in my face. It’s like running down a grass-covered hill.’ ~Leo Babauta
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Katie Tallo of Momentum Gathering.
It can carry you like a strong current carries a fallen leaf. It can ground you like an early morning walk through the woods. It can move you like wind moves a cloud across the summer sky. It can ignite your spirit and make you feel like you can do anything.
It is momentum – that invisible, universal force that can saturate your every choice, your every step, your every breath, your every moment of resolve with vibrant, joyful energy. Momentum can surge you forward and it can pull you under. It goes with your flow, follows your lead and enhances your trajectory.
It can be harnessed, gathered and used as an incredibly transformational tool.
How do I know this to be true? I’ve been actively gathering momentum for almost six years now, ever since I quit smoking. That one simple yet meaningful change shifted my direction just enough to spark momentum. I triggered it without even knowing it. All I knew at the time was that if I could quit smoking after twenty years of trying, I could do anything. That’s what momentum feels like. It seeps into your pores and tingles the back of your neck.
It feels like possibility.
That one success of quitting smoking led to another success … and then another. I took up running and yoga after years of sedentary living. I became a mindful eater and adopted a vegetarian diet after a lifetime as a meat-eater. I felt like I was waking up. I became aware for the first time in my life that I could make different choices from the ones I’d been taught – from the ones that had become habits. I let go long held beliefs, pounds and lethargy.
Momentum was helping to shape a new me, inside and out.
I found inner strength after years of feeling like someone who repeatedly started a new exercise regime or eating regime only to quit a few weeks in. I now knew I was capable of profound and lasting change.
I gave up the haze of red wine soaked evenings and instead wrote the first draft of a novel I’d been talking about for a decade. Momentum was gathering all around me. Even the word, momentum, kept popping up everywhere like red cars do after you buy a red car. I was seeing the word in books, hearing it in random conversations, feeling it as I ran and waking up with it on the tip of my tongue.
Six months ago, while reading one of my favourite blogs, Leo’s blog, this very blog, I linked to another called Write to Done which carried me to yet another called The A-List Blogging Club. That’s when I decided to write a blog about momentum as a means to express it, sustain it, understand it, embrace it, share it, inspire it in others and live it completely.
Momentum has propelled me and supported me.
It has been like a coach, mentor and teammate, and it has been my constant companion for the past six years of incredible life change and over the past six months of my new venture. It has ushered into my life the unexpected gifts of friendship, community, passion and life purpose. I have harnessed momentum and I never want to let it go.
How can you begin to gather momentum in your own life and make it work for you? How can you harness it’s power to create lasting and joyful life change? Simply let it.
Let momentum carry you
Dip into the warm waters of momentum by trying, experimenting, taking a first step, forgiving yourself for slip-ups and then trying again. Plunge into whatever you’ve been putting off for “some day” and make today the day you begin. Imagine how incredible it will feel to let the current of momentum carry you from this one success towards another. Each can be a wave you ride to the next.
Let momentum ground you
Feel the earth beneath your feet as you step in a direction that makes sense to you – just you. Ground yourself in the feeling that comes from reflecting upon what you believe in, doing what feels right to you and living by your own convictions, counsel and sense of right and wrong. Get solid about who you are and then feel the power and ease with which your choices come to you.
Let momentum move you
Take that first step in a direction of your own choosing, then with each bold statement, each strong stride, each clear-thinking choice let momentum joyously lift you higher and farther. Exceed your own expectations and strengthen your resolve to be who you were meant to be and nothing less. Don’t strive and stress – instead simplify and find success on your terms.
Let momentum ignite you
Once you feel it growing, let momentum fan the fire inside you – a fire that may have been burnt out or smoldering under the surface for a long time. Let yourself feel love and passion towards yourself, your life and everything you do then begin to recover, uncover or discover your true potential. If often leaps out of the flames.
Momentum thrives on you.
It is the water, the earth, the wind and the fire of your being. It embodies the elements of a life lived fully and on your own terms. It can fill your heart, sooth your soul, propel your body forward and, if you let it, momentum just might make you feel like you can do anything – and then likely, you can and will.
Katie Tallo seeks to inspire simple, joyful life change at Momentum Gathering. Her new book is The 7-Week Life Cleanse: A Simple Guide to Infusing Your Life With Momentum.
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