A friend had a post on FB that I felt was important enough to share with you. It seems as if the words ring true if you really think about how the world responds to your actions and wishes.
I have been put in a place to create something that was of meaning to myself (Southern New England Woman Magazine) and coinsidentely became beneficial to those who have chosen to be a part of it as an advertiser, writer, photographer, reader, event attendee. My goal was to bring something to women that would encourage and inspire them to be the best they could be. I was truly overwhelmed by the response I have received from so many regarding the magazine and my personal posts on Facebook, Twitter, etc which reflected me and my thoughts which have gone into the publication. It has meant much to me to know that what I have been tring to create has not gone unnoticed.
There was a time this summer and part of the fall in which I had to take a step back and reevaluate the meaning of what I was creating and the value it had to it's readers was not to be taken lightly. It was time to relect and regroup for the future of the publication. I am comfortable and happy now to be able to move forward with even more excitement on the next issue of the publication. For those of you who have been waiting patiently, thank you. You will see the publication released within a few months time. I couldn't be happier that time was taken to evaluate. Because of that, I am prepared to bring you the most spectacular issue! The words below, written by a friend, have confirmed my very thoughts and I am proud to share them with you. I hope that you will find his words just as encouraging as I have and be able to reflect on your own sense of self.
"I am exactly where I should be at exactly the right time. We are always positioned at the most precise point possible to evolve and find resolve. The key is so simple: surrender to the moment, forgive the past and visualize the future. When you can visualize something, it exists. To obtain it, you merely have to ask for it and truly want it and the responsibility and consequences that come with receiving it."
Best,
Pat
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Friday, October 22, 2010
Saturday, August 21, 2010
I always loved this article: 9 WAYS TO GET THE BEST FROM YOURSELF
Too many people die at 20 and are buried at 80. Too many people coast through life, never manifesting their potential and using only a fraction of their personal talents. According to the latest scientific research, the average person uses only 1/100th of 1% of their brain power over the course of the lives while respected researcher Ivan Yefremov has confirmed that "we could, without difficulty, learn 40 languages, memorize a set of encyclopedias from A to Z and complete the required courses of dozens of colleges." And yet most people become creatures of complacency, doing the same things, in the same way, with the same people, every day.
Here are 9 powerful lessons to consider for getting the best from yourself and manifesting the fullness of the potential for excellence that lies within you:
1. Define a Higher Reality
The most successful people in business are "possibilitarians". They make the impossible probable by thinking better thoughts than others and constantly visualizing a larger future. Make the time to think creatively and dream of ways to grow your business and enrich your personal life. Go to educational seminars, expose yourself to richer information and stay open to new ideas.
2. Surround Yourself with the Best
You are a product of your environment. The Principle of Association says that who you will be 5 years from now comes down to two primary influences: the people you associate with and the books you read. Make sure both are first rate. Surround yourself with people who are moving forward, men and woman who are excited and passionate about the changing business world we live within. Form a mastermind alliance of other salespeople who are creative and successful and meet weekly over the new year to brainstorm new ways to multiply your business victories. Also, read the biographies of the people you admire and learn from their lives. You can get deeply into the minds of the world's greatest thinkers simply by walking into a library.
3. Live in Day Tight Compartments
In the seminars that I deliver for companies across the country, I urge people to bring a greater sense of urgency to their days. Too many people squander their time worrying about past failures or future challenges. Yet, all to often, the fears of the future never materialize. As Mark Twain observed: "I've had a lot of trouble in my life, some of which actually happened." Live every day fully. The past is history and the future is but a dream. This day is all you have. Try new things, take more chances, think bigger thoughts. The results will speak for themselves.
4. Raise Your Standards
Eye doctors use the term "Amblyopia" to describe the phenomenon that occurs when the healthy eye of a young child, after being covered by a patch, loses its ability to see. People who spend their days working within a small zone of comfort also suffer from their own form of Amblyopia. By living their lives with blinders on, they have lost their natural ability to see the boundless opportunities presented by this Age of Knowledge. They have lost their vision and grow content with mediocrity. Unfortunately, the only path to a satisfying life is through excellence and initiative. Raise your standards for the year ahead. Demand more of yourself and push yourself to try things you may have thought you could never do. The best way to conquer fear is to meet it head on.
5. Go the Extra Mile
One of the best strategies for business success is to "under promise and over deliver." This simple philosophy will create a core of "True Believers" within your customer base who will generate tremendous word of mouth advertising for your business. Ask your customers what they expect from you in terms of service and then exceed their expectations. And do the same in your personal life. Read for 30 minutes a day, no matter how busy you are since new ideas are the commodity of success in these information-crazed times. Also work hard since industry always delivers its rewards. And constantly be improving your self since leadership always begins within.
6. Focus Your Energy
The great sage Confucius said: "man who chases two rabbits catches neither." One of the timeless principles of success is also one of the simplest: focus your energies on the things that count. As I teach in my time management seminars: "The person who tries to do everything ends up doing nothing. The real secret to getting things done lies in knowing what needs to be left undone." Concentrate your time on only those high-leverage activities that will lead you to your stated goals. If an activity is not linked to one of your strategic objectives, have the self-discipline to "just say no." Your productivity and achievement levels will soar.
7. Be a Motivational Leader
Peak performers are people-centered. They understand that by helping people get what they want, they will help you get what you want. Tirelessly ask those in your network of contacts: "How can I help you reach your goals?" Be of constant service to your customers, to your friends and to your community. Inspire others by your example and keep the promises you make. You might be surprised by the endless opportunities that are certain to come your way.
8. Be the Change
We are swimming in a sea of change. There has been more new information developed over the past 30 years than in the previous 5000. Technology is changing at a breakneck pace, the sociopolitical world has been transformed and even our workplaces and work styles are far different than they were just a few years ago. So what can we do to not only survive in this new information economy but thrive? My answer is to "Be the change". One day Mahatma Gandhi was asked by one of his followers how to change the attitudes of others. Gandhi thought for a while and then replied with a knowing smile: "Be the change." Embrace change as a business tool. Let go of that "bunker mentality" and be a part of the changing world around you. Master technology, surf the Net, take courses and start to see change for what it really is: an opportunity to take your business and your life to a whole new level of effectiveness.
9. Master The Action Habit
"Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do," wrote the German philosopher Goethe. Top performers understand that lasting success is a numbers game: the more action you take, the more results you reap. Take cold calling for example. The salesperson who makes one hundred calls a day is certain to close more deals that the one who only makes 50. Get good at taking action. If you learn a new marketing strategy or a new stress reduction tactic at a seminar, apply it immediately before "The Law of Diminishing Intent" takes hold and your desire starts to fade. If most people effectively implemented even half of the ideas that have graced their minds over the years, they would be successful beyond their dreams. The problem is that most people simply do not act on what they know. Don't let that happen to you.
Sustainable Living Articles @ http://www.articlegarden.com
Here are 9 powerful lessons to consider for getting the best from yourself and manifesting the fullness of the potential for excellence that lies within you:
1. Define a Higher Reality
The most successful people in business are "possibilitarians". They make the impossible probable by thinking better thoughts than others and constantly visualizing a larger future. Make the time to think creatively and dream of ways to grow your business and enrich your personal life. Go to educational seminars, expose yourself to richer information and stay open to new ideas.
2. Surround Yourself with the Best
You are a product of your environment. The Principle of Association says that who you will be 5 years from now comes down to two primary influences: the people you associate with and the books you read. Make sure both are first rate. Surround yourself with people who are moving forward, men and woman who are excited and passionate about the changing business world we live within. Form a mastermind alliance of other salespeople who are creative and successful and meet weekly over the new year to brainstorm new ways to multiply your business victories. Also, read the biographies of the people you admire and learn from their lives. You can get deeply into the minds of the world's greatest thinkers simply by walking into a library.
3. Live in Day Tight Compartments
In the seminars that I deliver for companies across the country, I urge people to bring a greater sense of urgency to their days. Too many people squander their time worrying about past failures or future challenges. Yet, all to often, the fears of the future never materialize. As Mark Twain observed: "I've had a lot of trouble in my life, some of which actually happened." Live every day fully. The past is history and the future is but a dream. This day is all you have. Try new things, take more chances, think bigger thoughts. The results will speak for themselves.
4. Raise Your Standards
Eye doctors use the term "Amblyopia" to describe the phenomenon that occurs when the healthy eye of a young child, after being covered by a patch, loses its ability to see. People who spend their days working within a small zone of comfort also suffer from their own form of Amblyopia. By living their lives with blinders on, they have lost their natural ability to see the boundless opportunities presented by this Age of Knowledge. They have lost their vision and grow content with mediocrity. Unfortunately, the only path to a satisfying life is through excellence and initiative. Raise your standards for the year ahead. Demand more of yourself and push yourself to try things you may have thought you could never do. The best way to conquer fear is to meet it head on.
5. Go the Extra Mile
One of the best strategies for business success is to "under promise and over deliver." This simple philosophy will create a core of "True Believers" within your customer base who will generate tremendous word of mouth advertising for your business. Ask your customers what they expect from you in terms of service and then exceed their expectations. And do the same in your personal life. Read for 30 minutes a day, no matter how busy you are since new ideas are the commodity of success in these information-crazed times. Also work hard since industry always delivers its rewards. And constantly be improving your self since leadership always begins within.
6. Focus Your Energy
The great sage Confucius said: "man who chases two rabbits catches neither." One of the timeless principles of success is also one of the simplest: focus your energies on the things that count. As I teach in my time management seminars: "The person who tries to do everything ends up doing nothing. The real secret to getting things done lies in knowing what needs to be left undone." Concentrate your time on only those high-leverage activities that will lead you to your stated goals. If an activity is not linked to one of your strategic objectives, have the self-discipline to "just say no." Your productivity and achievement levels will soar.
7. Be a Motivational Leader
Peak performers are people-centered. They understand that by helping people get what they want, they will help you get what you want. Tirelessly ask those in your network of contacts: "How can I help you reach your goals?" Be of constant service to your customers, to your friends and to your community. Inspire others by your example and keep the promises you make. You might be surprised by the endless opportunities that are certain to come your way.
8. Be the Change
We are swimming in a sea of change. There has been more new information developed over the past 30 years than in the previous 5000. Technology is changing at a breakneck pace, the sociopolitical world has been transformed and even our workplaces and work styles are far different than they were just a few years ago. So what can we do to not only survive in this new information economy but thrive? My answer is to "Be the change". One day Mahatma Gandhi was asked by one of his followers how to change the attitudes of others. Gandhi thought for a while and then replied with a knowing smile: "Be the change." Embrace change as a business tool. Let go of that "bunker mentality" and be a part of the changing world around you. Master technology, surf the Net, take courses and start to see change for what it really is: an opportunity to take your business and your life to a whole new level of effectiveness.
9. Master The Action Habit
"Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do," wrote the German philosopher Goethe. Top performers understand that lasting success is a numbers game: the more action you take, the more results you reap. Take cold calling for example. The salesperson who makes one hundred calls a day is certain to close more deals that the one who only makes 50. Get good at taking action. If you learn a new marketing strategy or a new stress reduction tactic at a seminar, apply it immediately before "The Law of Diminishing Intent" takes hold and your desire starts to fade. If most people effectively implemented even half of the ideas that have graced their minds over the years, they would be successful beyond their dreams. The problem is that most people simply do not act on what they know. Don't let that happen to you.
Sustainable Living Articles @ http://www.articlegarden.com
Monday, August 9, 2010
Believing in Your Own Abilities!
"There is no limit to what you can imagine. And with commitment, with effort, what you can imagine you can become. Put your mind to work for you. Believe that you can do it. The world will tell you that you can't. Yet, in your belief you'll find the strength, you'll find the ability, to do it anyway." Ralph Marston
If I listened to everyone who said that this was no time to start a print publication with the economy the way it is, I would have never proceeded with my passion to publish Southern New England Woman. The critics were everywhere. "Advertising money is down" they said. You won't be able to print a "high quality" magazine because "it's too expensive". How did they know that? Did they already try it themselves? Not to my knowledge...
In my opinion, it turned out to be the best time to start a publication. You have to believe that things are always going to get better and to leverage yourself in the best position possible for when they do, to me, was the key to making Southern New England Woman work. Being a "how" thinker gets alot more accomplished than being an "if" thinker. That and treating people with respect and a personal commitment to do your best.
I have been fortunate in a way that I am most grateful for my own persistence. I have created several long term businesses. A photographer and makeup artist for seventeen years having no official training or formal education in the industry. Pageant director, trade show and event producer for fifteen years, also with no official training or formal education in the industry and now publisher of this fabulous new magazine. I'm not trying to toot my own horn, what I
"am" trying to do is explain to people that it "can" be done. You can create your dream job if "you-yourself", have the will to do it.
It's exciting to take something, an idea, a thought, and build it. If I didn't believe in myself and go forward to pursue my dreams, where would I be? What would I be doing? The one question I asked myself in every case was "what's the worst thing that could happen if I did this". My answer was "as long as my family was safe and healthy, it would only cost me a life experience if it didn't work". To me that was a win - win!
I've learned alot by doing my own research and step by step learning every aspect of the industry from the ground up. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Don't be anxious to get things done quickly. Success takes time, effort and the fortitude to put your heart and soul into what you really want. When you rush to get things done fast, or just to get them "done", you prevent yourself the advantage of utimatelty accomplishing much greater things and missing out on the many life experiences creating something new has to offer.
I guess the point of this post is this...
I hear from many people on Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn, etc., who ask questions like, I have a business idea but I don't know if I should go forward. Not sure how to proceed with 'my" dream job. I lost my job and am looking to start my own business but I am not sure if I can.
Now, I certainly don't consider myself a professional business coach in any respect, however, if I could give one piece of advice that is as important as anything else, it would be this. Ask yourself, what "your" passion is, what can "you" do to learn everything you can about your industry of choice and... "what is the worst thing that could happen if you try"?
I love this quote: Real confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself, your strengths and your limitations. I was once afraid of people saying, "Who does she think she is?" Now I have the courage to stand and say, "This is who I am."--Oprah Winfrey
If I listened to everyone who said that this was no time to start a print publication with the economy the way it is, I would have never proceeded with my passion to publish Southern New England Woman. The critics were everywhere. "Advertising money is down" they said. You won't be able to print a "high quality" magazine because "it's too expensive". How did they know that? Did they already try it themselves? Not to my knowledge...
In my opinion, it turned out to be the best time to start a publication. You have to believe that things are always going to get better and to leverage yourself in the best position possible for when they do, to me, was the key to making Southern New England Woman work. Being a "how" thinker gets alot more accomplished than being an "if" thinker. That and treating people with respect and a personal commitment to do your best.
I have been fortunate in a way that I am most grateful for my own persistence. I have created several long term businesses. A photographer and makeup artist for seventeen years having no official training or formal education in the industry. Pageant director, trade show and event producer for fifteen years, also with no official training or formal education in the industry and now publisher of this fabulous new magazine. I'm not trying to toot my own horn, what I
"am" trying to do is explain to people that it "can" be done. You can create your dream job if "you-yourself", have the will to do it.
It's exciting to take something, an idea, a thought, and build it. If I didn't believe in myself and go forward to pursue my dreams, where would I be? What would I be doing? The one question I asked myself in every case was "what's the worst thing that could happen if I did this". My answer was "as long as my family was safe and healthy, it would only cost me a life experience if it didn't work". To me that was a win - win!
I've learned alot by doing my own research and step by step learning every aspect of the industry from the ground up. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Don't be anxious to get things done quickly. Success takes time, effort and the fortitude to put your heart and soul into what you really want. When you rush to get things done fast, or just to get them "done", you prevent yourself the advantage of utimatelty accomplishing much greater things and missing out on the many life experiences creating something new has to offer.
I guess the point of this post is this...
I hear from many people on Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn, etc., who ask questions like, I have a business idea but I don't know if I should go forward. Not sure how to proceed with 'my" dream job. I lost my job and am looking to start my own business but I am not sure if I can.
Now, I certainly don't consider myself a professional business coach in any respect, however, if I could give one piece of advice that is as important as anything else, it would be this. Ask yourself, what "your" passion is, what can "you" do to learn everything you can about your industry of choice and... "what is the worst thing that could happen if you try"?
I love this quote: Real confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself, your strengths and your limitations. I was once afraid of people saying, "Who does she think she is?" Now I have the courage to stand and say, "This is who I am."--Oprah Winfrey
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